Most people recognize you as fiercely independent and strong. In fact, it might come as a shock to others when you express that you are tired of being the one always initiating action. But that is how you feel right now and it's vital to set the balance straight. If you are the only one sharing today and it doesn't seem like you're receiving much in return, you might look into why you find security in giving. The art of love is a game of give and take.
Variety is essential in order to create a dynamic lifestyle; resisting change can be a draining exercise. The universe is pushing you out of outlived ideals and toward a deeper connection to people who will assist you in your next level of growth. The fear of losing your freedom to come and go as you want might surface, but it doesn't mean you have to pull back into solitude. When you are awake and aware, you know who you can trust and who you can't.
Compromising is part of life and can be healthy as long as it's a conscious choice. You are running around like crazy just to manage everything, but make sure that you don't negotiate away your fundamental needs for the sake of peace. It could be a good idea to let expectations go if people have nothing to offer you. Focus is of the essence now but regaining your stride might force you to make some cuts. Releasing something or someone opens the door to new experiences.
Keeping things as simple as possible is pure medicine for you. An acute sensitivity toward disturbances can cause you to freeze up now, leaving you uncertain how to react. Indulging in self-pity because people don't seem to understand you will only set you back today. Be brave and walk with acceptance and forgiveness. Ironically, what you need from others you can find within. The key to freedom is in your hands, so use it to set the past free.
You can regain your self-confidence by examining your shadow's wound and finding a remedy to heal it. You are letting go of the need for validation by accepting that the world is very often what you make it. Your attachment to your own ego is not helpful now as you are moving deeper into a relationship or further along your creative path. Be the one who speaks your truth first. The feedback you are looking for might come from another source. Pride is an obstacle in the field of love.
Shame can challenge your inner peace while you are breaking out of your comfort zone. Just because you are letting down your guard and expressing your feelings spontaneously doesn't necessarily mean you are making a fool out of yourself today. Moving beyond the logical realm is just an unfamiliar experience. Hold space for any emotion that arises and see it for what it is. One minute you can feel weak; the next minute you feel strong. Let the waves come and go without disturbing your inner equilibrium.
Challenge the temptation to spoil people just to create the harmony you require. The task of finding balance in relationships demands your serious commitment now that Venus, the planet of love, is singing her sweet song in your sign. Set an intention on how you want to use this cosmic good fortune and stick with it. Having a clear purpose creates direction, but things easily get out of hand without a specific goal. Wayne Dyer said, "Our intention creates our reality."
It is not all gold that glitters even if you think it is. Being embedded in your own emotional bubble might trick you into believing that others maintain the same standards as you do when they don't. Powerful surges of love should be given freely and not with the hope of receiving the same affection in return. What goes around, comes around, and rest assured that your generosity is appreciated. Self-respect creates balance.
Living in a dream is unsatisfying and yet you still need to push yourself into acting if you want to move forward. Your usual happy-go-lucky attitude is replaced by skepticism and doubt today, but circumstances require action even if you're not in the mood. Realistically, you cannot always expect things to be lighthearted. However, you can reduce your stress level by getting the least fun tasks out of the way early in the morning. Respond to life with levity and love.
You know that comparing yourself to others is not a healthy assessment of your true worth. Nevertheless, you are painfully aware of your shortcomings as you are pulled into your subconscious. When others talk to you today, you might space out and feel guilty afterwards. Recognize that you need time to digest their revelations and sort things out for yourself. Purifying the emotions is the hardest part of the healing journey. Being vulnerable means people can touch your heart.
Life sometimes feels like a cosmic joke and the only option you have is to see the humor in everything. That doesn't mean you are beyond experiencing hurt, but at least you are willing to maintain a positive attitude in situations that are not going anywhere. Fooling yourself into thinking that you are done with an emotional process is just part of an old habit of avoiding your emotions. Relationships bring growth and transformation if you let them blossom naturally.
You might feel a little uncertain where you end and others begin as everyone's boundaries are blurry today. You may hear all sorts of messages through the grapevine, prompting you to question your happiness if you take them personally. As you are learning to set healthy limits based on your priorities, understand that the word no is a complete sentence. Life is not a trial and your answer is not up for debate.
0 comments:
Post a Comment