People around you seem extra irritable today, possibly even overreacting without provocation. You might even have a minor crisis on your hands if you don't handle the tension right away. Unfortunately, engaging antagonistically with others in an attempt to defend your behavior will only amplify the negativity. President Barack Obama said, "It's the lack of empathy that makes it very easy for us to plunge into wars." Thankfully, deescalating a looming interpersonal conflict is a simple task if you just stop to listen with an open heart.
You are happy to jump in and help someone finish a project today, without expecting anything in return. Nevertheless, you're unwilling to put up with their criticism of the work you or anyone else is doing now. Unfortunately, there's probably no easy way to bring up your grievance. Calling the person out will likely lead to an unnecessary argument with no immediate resolution. Remember, you are there of your own volition. Instead of stirring the pot, just gently remove yourself from the situation. Wayne Dyer wrote, "Conflict cannot survive without your participation."
Not only does your lack of discipline annoy others today, your laid-back attitude could derail your productivity. You're more interested in talking about all the things you need to do than actually taking action to get them done now. Unfortunately, discussing your plans might be helpful under normal circumstances, but there's no benefit to justifying your procrastination. Instead of complaining about your obligations, channel your angst into your chores. A little accomplishment under your belt allows you to sleep better tonight.
You have a rare opportunity to make substantial progress on a project at home. Fortunately, your creativity is running strong now, and you see solutions rather than problems everywhere you look. However, it's not your goal to merely complete your work today; the finished product must also be pleasing to the senses. Although your artful intentions are admirable, there is a trade-off between beauty and efficiency. Pay attention to the ideal point of balance for the best results.
Social activities are the source of pleasure, but they may also bring conflict today. Your strong opinions about political or philosophical concerns could stir the stew of unrest, especially if you think it's your place to deliver the truth. Although intelligent people can arrive at different conclusions from the same data, there are some issues that are critical enough to fight for now. Make sure your desire to stand on your soapbox is coming from a higher perspective and not just your ego wanting some attention. Let your moral compass decide what matters most.
Your lingering indecision could instigate a conflict with a friend today. You might see something you want, but are unsure if it's a wise purchase. Normally, you have no problem making up your mind; you just look at the facts and the answer is obvious. But you're stuck in an endless mental loop and dragging someone else into your personal dilemma doesn't help now. Your previously internal argument is exacerbated once it has an anchor in the real world. Ending the struggle is simpler than you think. Make a decision and move on.
Your opinions or actions may be misinterpreted today, and the more you defend them, the worse the misunderstanding becomes. However, you're not likely to retreat if your anger is aroused. Your eagerness to engage in a war of words might surprise people, but you feel as if you must make your point. You're not interested in following someone else's lead now; you want to pursue your own agenda, even if you lose the support of those closest to you. Oprah Winfrey said, "Don't back down just to keep the peace. Standing up for your beliefs builds self-confidence and self-esteem."
You appear as if all is well in your world today, while your emotions are seething below the surface about a recent conversation gone wrong, an old emotional hurt or a current social injustice. Whatever the cause, you could be unconsciously cruising for a fight now, just waiting for someone to disagree with your position on anything. Unfortunately, you can lose your temper so easily that you precipitate a conflict. Instead of wasting time cleaning up an unnecessary mess, encourage others to express their opinions, too. A healthy debate rooted in mutual respect clears the air for everyone involved.
You're happy to hang out with your friends today, expecting to share adventures wherever you may roam. However, it might be difficult to get along with others if your agenda differs from theirs. At first, you remain quiet since you don't want your preferences to hijack the fun. But a minor annoyance can quickly build into resentment now, triggering an emotional outburst as you try to set things straight. Don't wait for your feelings to take over; discuss a possible compromise as a proactive measure. Mythologist Joseph Campbell wrote, "Regrets are illuminations come too late."
Contemplating your long-term goals can lead to anxious feelings today, especially if close friends and family members take issue with your plans. However, you want to share your dreams with those closest to you without being put in a defensive position. Your irrational concerns could prompt you to overcompensate by pushing people away. In fact, you might even go out of your way to fuel an open argument with someone you see as a potential adversary. Unfortunately, confrontation only makes matters worse. Downplaying the conflict is not a final solution, but it's your wisest strategy for now.
Your current notion of pleasure is engaging in anything that expands your mind. However, you don't want to take an idea so far that it destabilizes the parts of your life that work. For example, there's no harm in learning a foreign language as long as you're not considering an impulsive move around the globe to immerse yourself in that culture. Even the most outrageous dreams can be of value now if you don't act on them yet. Leo Tolstoy wrote, "The strongest of all warriors are these two: time and patience."
A significant decision about your future may be the source of a disagreement with your spouse or business partner today. Walking away from the conflict without a settlement is not an option, especially if the dispute is over money or other jointly held resources. Unfortunately, an argument could spark unresolved issues that explode into awareness, complicating the original negotiation. The key to navigating through this tricky territory is simple; no matter how intense your feelings may be now, treat one another with kindness and respect.
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