Should you tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with?

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Conventional wisdom might suggest that asking a new partner how many people they’ve slept with is a bit untoward. What’s the point, really? To judge them? Figure out where you fit in the lineup and compare your levels of experience? ‌ In truth, talking about your “sex number” can bring you closer together. It may end up segueing into a conversation about sexual intimacy and what you want in the bedroom, and that’s always a good thing. But there are some key things you should know before you ask. ‌ Xo, Ashley Rockman Here’s how to bring it up P.S. Black History Month is almost here and we're excited to show you what we're doing to celebrate. Sign up for the Black Voices newsletter and get an insider's look all February. In case you missed it: When we saw a viral TikTok trend in which users were dipping their testicles in soy sauce to see if they could taste it, we had to find out what was going on. They were putting a study to the test that found that male testes have taste receptors — but taste receptors aren’t the same thing as taste buds, despite what some of the TikTok users said they experienced. So how could it be that they tasted the saltiness? #TBT: From time to time, we’ll hear from readers sharing that their significant others refuse to go to the doctor or dentist. How can you encourage them to go? We have some helpful tips. This is why they may be hesitant Links We're Loving: How To Talk To A One-Upper Without Losing Your Damn Mind Tweets About Married Life That Will Have You Nodding In Agreement 10 Little Things To Do When You're Feeling Lonely Meet The People Shaping The Future Of Culture Introducing our list of 20 activists, artists, entertainers and entrepreneurs who are changing America. Read The Series 👋 You may have noticed our website is now www.huffpost.com. Don't worry, it'll still be the same HuffPost you know and love, just with a new URL. Make sure to update your bookmarks! HuffPost is now a part of Verizon Media Group. - On May 25, 2018 we introduced a new Privacy policy which  will explain how your data is used and shared. - Learn more. ‌ Does somebody keep forwarding you this newsletter? Subscribe here! ‌ ©2019 HuffPost | 770 Broadway, New York, NY 10003 You are receiving this email because you signed up for updates from HuffPost ‌ Feedback | Privacy Policy | Unsubscribe