Insidious marriage problems you need to pay attention to

Listen up No Images? Click here     Despite what you see on Instagram, no relationship is perfect. Chances are, every couple you know has had to overcome at least one big hurdle — likely several — on the path to #relationshipgoals. And all couples deal with the little annoyances that pop up in the course of daily life (he left the toilet seat up again?). But when does a pesky relationship nuisance become a bigger issue that shouldn’t be ignored? Some problems, like abusive behavior, are pretty universally regarded as red flags. Other issues that may appear harmless in comparison could actually be cause for concern too, though. Marriage therapists shared with us seven insidious marriage problems you should always pay attention to. Check them out.  Xo, Ashley Rockman   In case you missed it On the topic of red flags, there are some to be aware of early on in dating — at least, according to divorce attorneys. They see couples at their very worst and give surprisingly good advice about what to look out for as a relationship blossoms in order to avoid landing in their offices later on. Does the person you’re dating do any of these nine things? If so, proceed with caution.   #TBT If you’ve ever been in a long distance relationship, you know how hard it can be to feel connected when you’re miles apart. But keeping the love alive isn’t impossible and the distance may even strengthen your relationship in the long run. As writer Olga Baker told Huffpost, “Being far from each other is definitely a challenge, but it’s overcoming such obstacles that makes love stories special, memorable and treasured. If the person is right for you, the sacrifice will be well worth it.” We asked 12 couples in LDRs to share the little things they doto keep their bond strong while far apart. Go here for the sweet tidbits. Links we love: 11 Ways To Make Your First Valentine's Day After A Breakup Less Miserable A Guide To All Your Social Media Options After A Breakup 8 Signs You Should Consider Eloping    .     HuffPost is now a part of Oath and a part of Verizon. On May 25, 2018 we introduced a new Oath Privacy Policy which will explain how your data is used and shared. Learn More. No moon dust. No B.S. Just a completely essential daily guide to achieving the good life. Subscribe here. Like what you see? Share it. Can't get enough? You'll also love HuffPost's Entertainment newsletter. ©2018 HuffPost | 770 Broadway, New York, NY 10003 You are receiving this email because you signed up for updates from HuffPost Feedback | Privacy Policy | Unsubscribe      . - - Preferences  |  Unsubscribe