A marriage doesn’t deteriorate overnight, but there is usually an isolated moment or incident when people just knew their relationships were over.

We asked divorced men to share the last straw in their marriages — the moment that signaled the relationship was beyond saving. Here’s a snippet: “For me, it was learning that my infant daughter had met my wife’s affair partner. I could have probably worked through anything, but that just left me repulsed by the marriage at that point.”

Check out what else the men had to say here.

Xo, Ashley

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Admit it: you’ve lingered on the toilet long after you finished your business, just scrolling through Instagram or whatever else, when your partner desperately needed to use the bathroom. Artist Priscila Barbosa captures that relatable phenomenon perfectly in this illustration.

Ask an expert

For this week’s “Ask an expert,” I want to introduce you to my colleague Anna and her husband Simon, who host an amazing podcast called IVFML. They don’t claim to be infertility experts, but they have gone through a lot in their journey toward parenthood, and they share it all in the podcast in a frank, funny way. In the second season, which is streaming right now, Anna and Simon highlight other peoples’ stories and experiences with different types of family building. If you or someone you love has gone through pregnancy loss, infertility, or had to jump through more hoops to make a family, IVFML is a podcast you definitely want to check out.

#TBT

Many people assume that members of the Christian clergy are not allowed to date or marry, but it’s only Catholic priests who practice celibacy ― with some exceptions. “Most ministers are normal people. We take off our collar at the end of the day and go home and live life just like most other human beings,” said Brandan Robertson, a gay pastor at a progressive Christian church in San Diego. Reporter Brittany Wong talked to three ministers around the country about dating as a person of the cloth in our latest installment of “It’s Not You, It’s Me.” Here are their stories.