No Images? Click here I know I’ve written before about getting kids to listen. This week is not about that. It’s about when your kids *hear* you — they’re actively looking at you as you tell them something — but they have an almost pathological reaction to do the exact opposite of what you’ve just told them to do. Which leads me to my six year old and his new favorite thing to do. And not only is it worrisome on its own, but my three year old is watching his older brother and copying his behavior. When I ask him why he’s actively not listening, he just shrugs his shoulders and says he doesn’t know. I’ve read a handful of books on talking to your kids, but I don’t recall any chapters on What To Do When Your Kid Might Be A Sociopath. What frustrates and scares me most, I think, is that this is the first time where I feel like he’s slipping away from me. ‘Is this the moment,’ I think to myself, ‘when I lose him for good?’ As a mom of two boys, I have a fear of losing them, to spouses later on, sure, but more immediately to peer pressure, media and so on. I need to know that I can get through to him — that I haven’t lost him and that this just a navigable phase. So, dear fellow parents, please help me. Have you been through this? What’s worked? What’s not? Drop me a line at katea@huffpost.com. And if nothing else, please know that I’m going through it with you. Accurate 30 tweets from parents who are (rightfully) confused as hell by Scooby Doo.Calling all Potterheads! If your kids (or you) are Harry Potter fans, may we suggest a trip to one of these places?For when your kid is keeping you awake I found breastfeeding impossible. The latch was always off, my milk wasn’t plentiful and don’t even get me started on pumping to keep supply up. I know I’m not alone, and, as Catherine Pearson reported last week, now doctors are starting to finally come to terms with the often insurmountable pressures of breastfeeding for many new moms. I promise you’ll feel less isolated after you read this piece.More stories from the trenches: 👋You may have noticed our website is now www.huffpost.com. Don't worry, it'll still be the same HuffPost you know and love, just with a new URL. Make sure to update your bookmarks!HuffPost is now a part of Verizon Media Group. On May 25, 2018 we introduced a new Privacy Policy which will explain how your data is used and shared. Learn More.A guide to helping you raise the kind of person you'd like to know. Love what you see? Send it to a friend. Did someone forward this email? If so, subscribe here. Can't get enough? Check out (In)formation and The Good Life. |
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